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Somewhere Only We Know - Keane

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第一次听到这首歌,是在一部名为《He's Just Not That Into You》的电影中。Alex向GiGi告白的那个画面,至今还清晰地记得。又是一个让人感动到落泪的场景。一个傻傻等爱的女孩,寻爱路上屡遭挫败,情场高手Alex一度嘲笑单纯的GiGi一次次被男人愚弄,也尝试着传授她各种恋爱技巧。最后GiGi还是选择了坚持做自己,并收获了属于自己的真爱。影片似乎略带嘲讽,原来真心予人的人才是真正的“情场高手”,爱情这东西,不必堆叠太多华丽的辞藻,制造太多浪漫的惊喜,一颗真心,足矣。

记得GiGi在片中对Alex说过这样一段:

I'd rather be like that than be like you. I may dissect each little thing...and put myself out there too much...but at least that means I still care. Oh, you think you've won because women are expendable to you? You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way...but you don't fall in love that way either. You have not won. You're alone, Alex. I may do a lot of stupid shit...but I know I'm a lot closer to finding someone than you are.

“我宁愿那样,也不想像你一样。我可能是很喜欢仔细琢磨每件小事,翻来覆去地想,但至少代表我还在乎。你以为不在乎女人就是赢了?这样你也许不会伤害到你自己或者让自己出丑,但同时你也不会尝到爱情的滋味。你没有赢,你还是一个人。我可能做了该死的蠢事,但我知道我会比你更快找到另一半。”

  GiGi是个笨女孩,也可能会经历更多的伤害。但这一切坚持,同如愿以偿等到那个对的人相比,又算什么呢。付出真心,才会得到真心。喜欢真实。愿每一个相信真爱的、在这个冰冷世间生存的孤独个体都能恪守住这份对爱的信仰,勇敢向前,上天自不会负你。

Every movie we see, every story we’re told, implores us to wait for it. The third act twist. The unexpected declaration of love. The exception to the rule. But sometimes we’re so focused on finding our happy ending, we don’t learn how to read the signs, how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don’t, the ones who will stay from the ones who will leave. And maybe this happy ending doesn’t include a wonderful guy. Maybe it’s you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this: Knowing that through all the unreturned phone calls, and broken hearts, through all the blunders and misread signals, through all of the pain and embarrassment, you never, ever gave up hope.

 “我们看过的每一部电影,听过的每一个故事,都叫到我们去等待真爱。那经典三段式、意想不到的告白、相信自己是那个例外。但有时我们太过于专注最后的好结果,以致忽略了身边的那些信号,忘了怎样去分辨那些真正想要和我们在一起的人和迟早会离开我们的人。或许有的完美结局里并没有男主人公。或许你就能靠你自己,整理碎片,重新开始,轻松淡定只为更美好的未来。可能那个完美的结局就是,向前走。又或许完美结局是这样的:在经历了无数次的拒绝,伤心,无数次的自作多情,和数不清的痛苦和尴尬之后,你依旧对真爱满怀希冀。”





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